Interview business leaders and athletic or executive coaches, and ask what they find most rewarding about their work. Find out how they bring out the best in others.
Significance
Theme Description
You want to be very significant in the eyes of other people. In the truest sense of the word you want to be recognized. You want to be heard. You want to stand out. You want to be known. In particular, you want to be known and appreciated for the unique strengths you bring. You feel a need to be admired as credible, professional, and successful. Likewise, you want to associate with others who are credible, professional, and successful. And if they aren’t, you will push them to achieve until they are. Or you will move on. An independent spirit, you want your work to be a way of life rather than a job, and in that work you want to be given free rein, the leeway to do things your way. Your yearnings feel intense to you, and you honor those yearnings. And so your life is filled with goals, achievements, or qualifications that you crave. Whatever your focus—and each person is distinct—your Significance theme will keep pulling you upward, away from the mediocre toward the exceptional. It is the theme that keeps you reaching.
Action Items
You probably enjoy receiving public recognition for the differences you make.
You want to have an impact on other people, groups, and society as a whole.
You want the contributions you make to be viewed as substantial, powerful, and significant.
Significance talents are sometimes perceived as egotism or a need for attention.
You probably are most engaged and effective when you have some sense of control and choice. Seek independent projects that give you freedom to excel.
Your reputation is important to you, so decide what you want it to be, and tend to it in the smallest detail. Identify and earn a designation that will add to your credibility, write an article for the campus newspaper that will give you visibility, or volunteer to speak in front of a group that will appreciate your achievements.
Identify your best moment of recognition or praise. What was it for? Who gave it to you? Who was the audience? What do you have to do to recreate that moment?
Being seen as credible, professional, and successful is important to you. Consider joining student organizations tied to your major. These can be opportunities to develop your credentials and professional expertise as you head into a career or to graduate school.
You value appreciation and affirmation. Tell the significant people in your life how important their feedback and support are to you. Their words can motivate you to even higher levels of achievement.
Be aware that you often want the significant people in your life to be proud of you. You enjoy the challenge of meeting others’ expectations. Share your dreams and goals with your family or closest friends. Their resulting expectations of you will keep you reaching for those dreams and goals.
Above all, you want to make your mark on the world. You deeply care about making a difference. Decide which actions are likely to have the most impact in an area you care about. Take risks and step into the spotlight.
Think about why a particular class is important to your future.
Identify three of your personal goals and connect them to your academic life.
Take control of your life, beginning with your education.
Create a list of goals that will bring you great satisfaction in your personal life. Then consider how college can help you reach those goals.
Take a leadership role in a study group.
Choose to study with other hard-charging classmates.
Establish relationships with your professors so they know who you are and of your interest in achieving.
Associate with professors and students whose interests and goals are similar to your own.
You want people to know who you are. Become friends with people in your classes by initiating conversations with them.
You want people to appreciate your work, but if appreciation is not shown, don’t give up. Work even harder.
Choose classes that offer you some independence.
Select classes relevant to your goals and desires.
Select classes in which you can be highly successful.
Take part in activities that display and make use of your confidence — make public appearances, climb mountains.
Run for an elected office.
Think about people you admire and what they have in common. Talk to them about the work they do and what they find rewarding about it. Ask them to give you feedback about your own goals and strategies for meeting them.
Significant people do significant things. Imagine the legacy you want to leave. Picture yourself at retirement, looking back on a life that has made the world a better place. What will you have you done to accomplish that?
Environments in which you and your significant contribution are visible to others and in which you receive recognition for a job well done are likely to bring out your best.
Knowing you’ve made a significant contribution is important to you. Volunteer in organizations where you can make that difference and where your efforts will be appreciated.
Seek opportunities to work with people you respect because they are professional, credible, and successful.
Environments in which you are given flexibility to do things your own way are likely to bring out your best.
Identify the specific talents that will help you make an extraordinary contribution to your workplace, and create opportunities to build on them.
Belief
Theme Description
If you possess a strong Belief theme, you have certain core values that are enduring. These values vary from one person to another, but ordinarily your Belief theme causes you to be family-oriented, altruistic, even spiritual, and to value responsibility and high ethics—both in yourself and others. These core values affect your behavior in many ways. They give your life meaning and satisfaction; in your view, success is more than money and prestige. They provide you with direction, guiding you through the temptations and distractions of life toward a consistent set of priorities. This consistency is the foundation for all your relationships. Your friends call you dependable. “I know where you stand,” they say. Your Belief makes you easy to trust. It also demands that you find work that meshes with your values. Your work must be meaningful; it must matter to you. And guided by your Belief theme it will matter only if it gives you a chance to live out your values.
Action Items
You have core values that are unchanging. You may conflict with people who oppose or don’t value your beliefs.
You have deeply held ideas about what is, what should be, and the purpose of your life.
You naturally become enthusiastic and energetic about tasks, roles, or positions that promote your deeply held beliefs.
Some people may think you are rigid or contrary because of your strongly held beliefs.
When you live your life according to your deepest values and beliefs, you experience motivation, drive, and determination.
Your energy comes from your sense of mission and purpose. Remember to connect the choices you make to the “why” so you will be fully committed.
Think about the values you cherish most. Continue to clarify them so you can communicate them better to others
To give voice to your values, partner with people who have exceptional talents in Communication or Woo. This approach will help others know who you are and how to relate to you.
Actively seek roles that fit your values. In particular, think about joining organizations that define their purposes by the contribution they make to society.
Listen closely to hear others’ values and beliefs. Tune in to those as ways of connecting with other people.
Consider defining your beliefs in more positive terms, focusing on what you are “for” rather than what you are “against.” This might help you be perceived in a more positive way.
Express your values outside of academics. Look to community service or volunteer work for opportunities that are a good fit with your value system.
Write an academic mission statement for yourself. Integrate your core values, such as a leaving the world better than you found it, curing AIDS, ending violence, or affirming the dignity of each human being.
Discover ways to weave your core values into routine classroom assignments. Write and speak about topics directly related to your beliefs.
Read about individuals who stood up for their convictions in the face of resistance. Determine who inspired these people to dedicate their lives to great and noble causes.
Debate an issue like: “Money is the true source of happiness.” Argue for and against this proposition. Ask yourself, “How was my position strengthened when I could incorporate my beliefs into the argument? How was my position weakened when I had to defend the opposing point of view?”
List your top three to five beliefs on a piece of paper you can use as a bookmark. Filter whatever you are reading and hearing through the lenses of these core values.
Assess whether you are allocating enough time to classes, projects, and assignments that add meaning to your life.
Suggest alternative topics for reading and research to your professors. Match your preferred assignments to one or more of your core values.
Form a study group of individuals with whom you share one or more important belief. Ask each member to describe how these core values contribute to his or her success as a student.
Tell your classmates and professors about the ideas, causes, and projects you are most passionate about.
Encourage others to tell you when your intensity inspires them and when it overwhelms them. Maintain an ongoing dialogue to ensure that they understand you.
State what you believe is right and wrong. Help others grasp what you value and why you value it.
Notice instances when you willingly inconvenienced yourself to come to the aid of a specific person or group. Ask, “Which of my core values drove this behavior?”
Enroll in ethics classes. Learn to evaluate the rightness of decisions in fields such as science, medicine, business, government, religion, and environmental protection.
Risk advocating your beliefs in class discussions as well as conversations with classmates and instructors.
Choose courses taught by professors known for their strong beliefs, even when their values clash with yours. Realize that considering the values of others can help you refine your own.
Select classes that challenge you to clarify, reinforce, defend, and live out the guiding principles of your life.
Figure out ways to spend quality time with your family. Make a point of going home or calling to show you are thinking of them on birthdays and special holidays.
Consider running for a campus office. Build your campaign platform on values-oriented issues that matter greatly to you. Inform potential voters about what you stand for and why.
Practice speaking a foreign language by helping a refugee family adapt to their new country and its customs.
Spend time thinking about your “calling.” Once you have articulated this mission, seek more information at the career center about careers that can help you fulfill it.
A mentoring relationship can provide a valuable way for you to gain insight into the fit between who you are and what you were meant to do with your life. Mentoring and being mentored increases the chances for your behaviors, decisions, and beliefs to remain congruent.
Environments that are a good fit with your own mission and beliefs will bring out your best. Seek employment in companies and organizations that exhibit a strong sense of mission — that is, a commitment to positively affecting the quality of people’s lives.
Research opportunities in helping professions such as medicine, law enforcement, social work, refugee relocation, teaching, ministry, and search-and-rescue. Talk with people who provide services to individuals in need. Interview those who supervise them.
Environments that are people-oriented, that provide service to others, or that reward personal growth are likely to allow your Belief talents to flourish.
Workplaces that respect your commitment to your family and allow for a balance between work and family demands will enable you to thrive.